The book The River, the Kettle and the Bird A Torah Guide to a Successful Marriage, by Rabbi Aharon Feldman.
The River, the Kettle and the Bird Description
[From the publisher website] The River, the Kettle and the Bird: These three things symbolize three possible levels of peaceful relationships in marriage. In this world acclaimed best-seller, the author, a prominent Rosh Yeshiva, utilizes classic Torah concepts to gain startling insights into the human psyche and to propose fundamental guidelines to deal with problem areas of married life. This powerful volume addresses openly and clearly questions such as: What is true love? How does one handle anger and frustration? How can domestic strife be lessened and ultimately eliminated?
This book – for newly engaged and wed as well as for those married for decades – will not only guide readers to a successful marriage, but to joyous living in general.
About the author: Rabbi Aharon Feldman, shlit”a, is the Rosh Yeshiva of Yeshivat Ner Israel in Baltimore, Maryland, as well as Nasi of Yeshivat Be’er Hatorah in Jerusalem. He is a well-known Torah scholar, writer, editor, and lecturer. He is the author of several acclaimed works including The Juggler and the King.